Surviving Toddlerhood, Part 5: The Tantrums

This is a fun one. Well, the tantrums aren't fun, but they are inevitable. I have yet to meet a parent who has not had to deal with at least one tantrum. Are there any out there? I want your secrets. Until those parents come out of the woodwork, I want to talk about tantrums … Continue reading Surviving Toddlerhood, Part 5: The Tantrums

Reading to My Toddler, How to Pick Books That Aren’t Picture Books

My son is that wonderful age of 3, where he wants to explore everything, pick his own dinner, and talks way too much. Actually, it's a good thing he talks a ton considering he was diagnosed with a speech delay when he was 2. But now he repeats everything he hears. His dad and I … Continue reading Reading to My Toddler, How to Pick Books That Aren’t Picture Books

What Do I Do When I Want Cake, But No One Else Does?

Well, sometimes I make cupcakes and freeze most of them. Sometimes I look online for something like mug cakes! I have a mug. Now that it's practically summer here in Southern California, I don't use it for hot chocolate. Instead, it sits and waits for winter to come along again. Recently, Kimberly of Mother of … Continue reading What Do I Do When I Want Cake, But No One Else Does?

Surviving Toddlerhood Guest: Just Breathe Mama With Some Tips for Disciplining a Toddler

Disciplining a toddler can be freakishly difficult and tricky. Here are some great tips and ideas from Just Breathe Mama! It is so so so important that when you are disciplining a toddler that you and your partner are on the same page. If you are not on the same page, toddlers totally know that … Continue reading Surviving Toddlerhood Guest: Just Breathe Mama With Some Tips for Disciplining a Toddler

Surviving Toddlerhood, Part 4: The Envelope Pusher

There are two things from my days as a behavior interventionist that save me here. One: Don't make a demand or promise anything unless you can follow through. If you tell a toddler you'll take them to Disneyland if they eat their whole dinner, you had darn better take them to Disneyland when they clean … Continue reading Surviving Toddlerhood, Part 4: The Envelope Pusher

Surviving Toddlerhood Guest: Delightful Motherhood on Why Toddlers Need Attention

Toddlers always seem to be demanding constant attention. It can be exhausting, but they need it. Delightful Motherhood has a wonderful perspective on this, and we could all keep it in mind. A different perspective on one of the most well known topics: Toddlers. via Why your toddler needs undivided attention — DelightfulMotherhood

Surviving Toddlerhood Guest: Not Toddler Advice by Kristy of Coffee & PJs

The Lily Cafe is thrilled to present mom of a toddler Kristy from Coffee & PJs, a special guest here to talk about her experience with toddlerhood. I really don’t have great how-to-survive the toddler years advice. Most people will give you a ton of reasons why the toddler years are so miserable and how … Continue reading Surviving Toddlerhood Guest: Not Toddler Advice by Kristy of Coffee & PJs

Surviving Toddlerhood, Part 2: What Being a Behavior Interventionist Taught Me

Since graduating college, I have worked off and on as a behavior interventionist for children with autism. I have been trained at 4 different places and use many of the strategies I learned with my own children. Below are some of the ones that have helped me not only in my work, but in keeping … Continue reading Surviving Toddlerhood, Part 2: What Being a Behavior Interventionist Taught Me

Baking with Small Children

I love to bake, ever since my mom deemed me tall enough to stand on a chair and see over the counter. Having kids didn't slow down my love of making cookies; for awhile it just meant Daddy had to entertain our son. But, one day, Daddy wasn't home and I was dying for a … Continue reading Baking with Small Children

Surviving Toddlerhood, Part 1: Have Some Psychology

The Terrible Twos. The Terrible Threes. Even the Terrible Fours. Is toddlerhood really that terrible? I look at my toddler, my three year old with an angelic face (aren't they all?) and I think, "No, he's anything but terrible." Toddlerhood is that precarious point where a child is eager to and capable of exploring, but … Continue reading Surviving Toddlerhood, Part 1: Have Some Psychology